Thomas Jacobs is thankful for his new wedding band —particularly the untraditional way he got drawn to life partner Becca Kufrin.

Visiting with Kaitlyn Bristowe for her Off the Vine web recording, the Bachelor in Paradise alum made sense of why he's respected to be the one to express yes to a proposition.

"Having a ring on your finger like a male, when your accomplice proposes to you as a female — you simply feel like a terrible b- - - -," said Jacobs, 29, inciting chuckles from Bristowe, 36, and Kufrin, 32. Kufrin asked about getting hitched to Jacobs last month and reported their commitment through Instagram on May 29. "In a definitive unexpected development… HE SAID YES!" she subtitled a progression of photographs of the pair.

The news hasn't been without reaction, for sure fanatics of Kufrin authorizing orientation jobs — and asserting that Jacobs ought to have been the one to propose. For the couple, however, the proposition implies something uniquely great.

"That is the greatest commendation," Jacobs proceeded to Bristowe. "That she needs to secure me? That she proposed to me? Like, what? Am I a prize spouse now? Do I walk unique? Do I talk unique? Do I wear a monocle? What would be an ideal next step?" he kidded. Kufrin previously protected her choice to propose to Jacobs on her Bachelor Happy Hour digital recording with co-host and individual previous Bachelorette star Michelle Young.

However, I've additionally seen remarks where individuals are like, 'She's frantic.' 'I could never permit a lady to propose to the man.' 'I could never do this,'" she said. "Furthermore, it's like, cool, that is you. In any case, for what reason gets it done, as a female, make me frantic to need to [propose] to someone? If Thomas in seven days were to do precisely the same thing, nobody says he's frantic. It doesn't sound good to me. The rationale's not there."

She likewise uncovered she and Jacobs intend to join their last names to make another previous name once they seal the deal.